Sexy is when a woman has everything to flaunt, but chooses not to show it.

I decided to write a post on this "finally" 
This was a topic that was highly requested
Have you ever had a friend that post half naked pictures on Facebook, Instagram, and etc, but cries how she can never find a good man? 
A friend that easily lets dudes smash after "talking" or "one date", but wonders why she don't have nobody?
Or, a friend that doesn't respect herself, but doesn't understand why she can't be respected by no man?
We all have a friend or know somebody like that? 
I have a couple of friends like this. 
Posting half naked pictures ain't going to get you NO WHERE!!!!!!
The same woman that's bitter and whine about how men ain't shit are the same ones that get treated like a hoe.
That's just something I don't understand.
If I feel like a pair of shorts are too short or shirt show too much cleavage I began to feel uncomfortable and feel naked. 
[But let's be real I have absolutely no cleavage they will see bare chest anyways]
Dressing and posting pictures with all your stuff hanging out is going to get the attention from man that only wants "one" thing. 
You think when he writes comments like "DAMN", "WHOA", "CALL ME", or "WHAT'S UP" that's cute. 
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He just want to smash the cakes that's all 
Then you cry when you find out about you being the "side chick" is because that's what you are. 
Have some class about yourself.
When you carry yourself like a skank and diss dudes saying they ain't shit you only going to attract ain't shit guys simple as that.
It's more to you than being labeled as something that your not, but don't portray yourself in that manner.
No man and I mean NO MAN is going to wife, let you meet his parents, or bring you out in public if your portray yourself like that. 
You can't want the Beyonce and Jay Z relationship, but instead you go for the Mary Jane and Kirk relationship?
I mean for real GTHOF!!!!!
And us good woman don't always get the good guys.
We get the idiots too, but instead of being side chicks we're labeled as the "main girl", but have to worry about chicks like y'all that don't know how to stay in your place.
And a real woman will not tolerate her man going around having side chicks either.
Let's be clear.... 
If a side chick is worth ANY of my time that he's giving her that means he ain't even worth it to be apart of MY life.
I don't want to offend anybody or hurt anyone's feelings I'm just being honest
Don't hate the good girl for getting the good guy too because you can get that same thing too you just have to talk to God and you'll get through it.

Your body is your temple remember that *wink wink*

xoxo,,,theROCKstarrrr